Welcome to the dojo

If you’re ready to stop screwing up your relationships, you can.

I don’t care how many times you’ve ghosted, clung, shut down, panicked, or fallen for someone emotionally unavailable with a godlike jawline. I don’t care if your idea of vulnerability is crying during Pixar movies but running for the hills when someone actually sees you.

You can learn how to love. Really love. The kind that heals you. That burns through your patterns. That brings you home.

I know this because I’ve done it. And not alone.

When my partner Theodor and I got together, we were two beautiful wrecks. We weren’t emotionally fluent — we were scared shitless. But we made a commitment: to stay until we learned. To make our relationship the dojo. And we did the work. Still do.

For over a decade we’ve trained in real love. Not performance love. Not fantasy. But LOVE in its raw, sacred, disruptive, divine form. The kind that invites you to grow, again and again, until what remains is true.

That’s what this space is about. Not advice. Not theory. But a path.

A spiritual, messy, liberating path into Sacred Union — within yourself and with another. And into the bigger LOVE that breathes us all.

So if you’re tired of shallow connections and hungry for something real —Welcome. You’re in the right place.